I even went as far as asking her what the retrouvialle program is all about. Trying to reconcile, and she sais yes she knows and yes and she believe their is an opportunity for to reconcile but the question is when. Im going to stand firm for my family as I do not want my kids to go through what she went through when her parents divorced. When things were great we went out alot, we talked communicated, and everything. then over time things just started to change. She started to critisize more so I stopped opening up, and only telling her half truths.