Financies, my son, well he is my disatisfaction to not lying here. And she just feel that we somehow disconnected over the years. We have put our kids before us, and it has taken a toll. And now I just think her actions fit the description of someonethats going through a MLC. Even though on the retrouvialle website they call this stage MISORY. Then the next stage is awakening. I'm trying to get us to that stage, but it seems I'm pushing and carrying her all the time. To my surpirse though she did mail in the information, and chose us to have one bed instead of two. When I asked her about it she yelled let my actions speak for something please. Because Im always like second guessing her, when she says something I will be like please just tell me the truth.