She says maybe we should separate so she can have time to herself. Well the thing about that is if we separate it will make the financial strain just that much touhger. So I called around and came upon retrouvialle. Read all these success storiesand she agreed to go. The thing is I'm starting to think that she is only doing this so I can have closure. I believe she is going to go, just to say well I went and nothing changed so thats that. When we talked about it I asked her the only way it will work if she will have an open mind and heart and she said. Well I'm the one who sent the form in, let my actions have some sort of meaning to you please! The reason I had to ask that is because when we went to marriage counseling (the counselor was not very good I must add)she said she was going in with an open mind but she was so damn negative and blaming me for unhappiness that is made me boil inside but I never showed it. I just keep saying we have hurt each other and we need to find some way to really forgive one another. She agreed and I thought we were heading somewhere. And then I ran across this email she sent O/M. Stating that she has never opened her heart up to one other person, and he hurt her (NOT ME)and she feels this guy is doing the samething. She quoted him as saying that he will always be there for her and all the other mumbo jumbo. But the part that got me steaming was the part when she told him our marriage have been over with for along time now. And she can totally see their lives coming together, and she wants them to move forward together. I was floored to say the least.
