I'm glad that the talk wasn't overly emotional and that it was productive. Maybe the separation will be good for both of you and he can see what life without you and your girls is like.
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I think he had thought it through, but perhaps it became more "real" to him yesterday.
My H did file for D. We are now piecing (still living separately) and I asked him how he could have even filed. He said that whole time didn't even seem "real" to him, and it finally hit him when it was going to be final. We were in TX at the time and they only have a 60 waiting period. It is frustrating how easy it is to get a D.
Sounds like you have a good weekend planned. I am sure he will notice after you have been "sexified"! He may not say anything...but I bet he notices.
Hang in there, this is a long road. Patience has been the hardest part for me.
