Confused, remember to give it to God. Don't "confuse" (sorry I had to say that) that with being passive. Being a Christian is anything but passive but is perceived that way because most people believe if we do not "act", we are letting things happen to us.
Scripture supports that we pray, wait for God to give us direction and then we are bound by our faith to follow His direction. If you believe He wants you to take care of your family and your love for your W is the agape type love, then don't let any person influence you away from what God directs you to do.
Your kids can learn a lot about what it means to be a man who puts his family first. They will never forget that.
Tell us about your family. How old are your kids?
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
