Mishka's- new thread/new tude - H who?

[missmyfriend]

Hi Mishka!

I am sorry that you have to go through this. It is really awful to have to deal with a spouse that appears to have no regard for your feelings.

Angelica has done a great job of pointing out AmyC's insight into the mind of a MLCer. They become very self-absorbed and can only think about themselves. They can only see us a hindrance to remove whatever pain they feel.

The best thing you can do for yourself and your entire family is to get as close to God as possible and lean on Him for strength. No one else can rescue from the feeling of despair.

The one thing I pray to God about is to mold me into the man He always wanted me to be and to be the kind of husband and father I should have been, regardless of my wife's choices. I have asked Him to avert my eyes from the circumstances and to focus on Him at all times.

That is why it is said "Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path" (Psalm 119:105).

If we focus on other circumstances instead of the Word, we will stray from the path and experience confusion, sorrow and loss. Fear and faith cannot occupy the same space.