Great feedback everyone. You are SO right about the texting in the middle of the night. I need to remember to "act as if"... and in this situation, "as if" means "as if I am not interested in answering a midnight text". Gotcha. The text could have been a way for him to check and see if he still has me on the hook. I'll be more prepared next time. Glad I didn't get too involved with it.