"your lack of initiating is going to get his attention more than calling him everyday will."
Yes I agree with military wife...
A woman I was helping on a different board, her husband would initiated and then she would jump on the band wagon--and he'd pull back.
He'd say he wanted to come over and she'd say yes! then he wouldn't show up.
When he does contact you again it will be a lot faster and with more pursuing then if you contacted him before. And when he does, don't be all gung ho yes if he asks to see you or to talk or whatever.
Let him think YOU are no longer sure if he is what YOU want.
And next time he texts in the middle of the night, don't answer. He can wait, you're sleeping! And why should he assume you are alone in the middle of the night?
