Jilly I'm sorry your brother made you a bit batty, Brothers do that.
I agree w/ Lissie, he knows you are the smart, orgnaized cookie of the bunch , and you are!! but yes, he may need to deliver the request with a few pleases and what not. Its ok. I think he means well, hes, well hes a brother!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life