Your situation is making me ill. It's really so completely unfair and WRONG. Does your H not have a conscious? He should feel OVERWHELMED with guilt. How could he take $$$ from you for the house you've poured your life savings into after all he's done??????????? He needs to treat you with more respect. If he wants to stay in your house, how can he continue to spend time with OW? I guess it's because he's afraid of her. Grow some cajones, Sara's husband!!!! His moral compass is completely skewed right now.

I hope you're doing OK today, Sara. How soon can you speak to your pastor?


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence