thank you so much for advising!!!! It means so much to me!!! Essie, thank you for being so supportive and sharing all your good ideas. Ali, the idea of going for a bike ride is really clever! You are so right, I have been a side-of-the-pool-clinger!! Time to kick my legs with strength and conviction into the center of the pool!
As for Jersey, I will plan on looking super hot and smiling a lot. There will be both male friends/acquaintances and also female (specifically a pair of twins) so who knows!
I am SO happy you are happy for me and are going to celebrate with tea and SEVERAL biscuits!!!!
LOVELOVELOVE TRANSFORMER
P.S. I just got a grown-up physical exam for the first time (incl. gyn) and the doctor said everything was healthy and normal. I have been putting this off forever and finally did it and it wasn't even that bad!
P.P.S. Ali, any thoughts on how the mercury retrograde might affect my sitch? I need to remember to "casually" ask B for more info on his birth time and exact birth place...