AbbysDad - sorry to hear of this recent development. I've followed your story on and off and hoped things would improved. I remember the way I felt when I found out things I didn't want to know about my W and it was definitely one of the most difficult times of my life.

Your emotions will run you over and now isn't the time to make any life altering decisions. Allow yourself to be angry and that emotion run its course. Just don't act on your anger. Be aware you are emotionally charged right now and don't beat yourself up. This seemingly overwhelming anger will pass with time.

I can't offer you any advice on specifically how to deal with your W since I'm still in the process of piecing my sitch back together and just don't have the knowledge/experience/wisdom at the moment. What I can say is focus on you...it's truly the only thing you can change.

Be strong and stay strong.


My thread:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1424620