From personal experience, getting clingy doesn't work. At all. It just makes them mad. He may not want it to work right now, but there is always a chance he will in the future. The key is to let your H figure out his own feelings.
It is about detaching, which is easier said than done. Have your own life, keep busy, work on self. You are entitled to be happy, but in order to do this, you do have to detach yourself from the situation. Realize that THIS relationship is over, but that does not mean you can't begin a new one with your spouse in the future.
In the meantime, post. This place has been great. I have only been here a few weeks, but support and love of strangers who know exactly what you are going through is invaluable.
Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
