You are right ACJ. It took my h 22 mos. It sounds like Trusting's h might be there. He is mentioning how miserable he is. That is a start or possibly a clue.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"