Funny you should say that because I was just telling a friend that yesterday. I understand that once all her weight went and she got a lot of attention it did become a drug. I guess I wouldn't have categorized it as a "sex addict" but its obvious she's addicted to that right now. Doesn't make it feel better for me though.
Phoenix,
MIL have a unique relationship. Actually she's been my second mom since the beginning but I do watch what I say around her now. But she is completely out of the loop when it comes to W. I think W doesn't tell her much out of shame, and MIL is struggling almost as much as me right now. But MIL does have one focus right now and she keeps me on the focus too. She says "its all about that little girl" and it really keeps me sane.
Today, I'm going completely dark. I had a little wine last night and said/did a few mean things when W FINALLY stopped by to see Abby. First I said "I hope you wash the sheets before Abby comes over to stay". Also, when Abby took W upstairs to show her some dance, I grabbed some condoms and asked W if she needed any extras. Way opposite of DB but I vow not to do anything like that again. I'm going dark and staying dark. If not just for me, but also Abby.
Thanks everyone.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)
