Thanks Twin. I've watched those mechanical bulls a couple of times, but never had the nerve to get up on one. If I thought I could look as good as Debra Winger in the movie Urban Cowboy I’d try it in a heartbeat. I’m sure with my luck however I’d probably just break my arm. You’re right though, that is exactly what this MLC stuff feels like.
I’m trying to keep positive today. I looked at the calendar and realized that Friday is the one year anniversary of my cancer surgery. I should be thinking about celebrating, but all I can think of is what love and support I felt from my H. at this time last year. I never dreamed he would turn into whatever it is that he is now.
In the past, even when we would have a fight or argument we would never stay mad for more than a day or two. We were always friends, and in fact I had always thought I had married my best friend. Now though he doesn’t want me around. He’d rather spend his time drinking with his male buddies. Recently I heard that one of the older guys, (who is divorced 3 times and now on the outs with his most recent girlfriend), and who I think is just looking for a full time “party buddy” has been running me down to my H. That really hurt because I have always considered this guy to be a friend. Do you have any advice for dealing with “non-supportive friends” such as this?
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
