I will have to think about that. In a way I regret having his name on the house in the first place. The down payment came from my life's savings as well as an inheritance I had from my Grandparents and I have made every single house payment for the past 2 years we have lived there. So he has given nothing towards the house. But at the time we were happily married and chose the house together, so how could I have known differently?

H TMed me last night. When I heard it go off I thought...."oh no, he is sending me a message saying that he is ticked off about the things I did." But instead it just said "Goodnight Sara." I wonder why he sends me those types of messages all of the time. What is going on in his mind?

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08