Hello this is my first posting. My wife of three years (been tgether for 12) Three kids one from my previous marriage told me she loves me but is no longer in love with me. She is having an affair that I know about but she still tries to keep it a secret from me. Says she does'nt want to hurt my feelings. We go to individual counseling right now, and she agrred to go to Retrouvaille with me in July,which is two whole months away. The question I have is there anyone here who attended Retrouvaille, with their spouse going through a mid-life crisis?
