Well, I'm glad that's working for you! My kids (fortunately or unfortunately) never saw us fighting as we just never did. So while I tell them that it's normal for them to want their parents together and it is sad and that we won't get back together. They still struggle to see what was SO BAD that we had to divorce.
All situations are different of course and I realize there are no cookie cutter approaches to this so it's more a vent than anything. And I appreciate the feedback.
