Let Go, First off I am sorry that you are here but I applaud you for doing everything you can to save your m.
It saddens me to hear your side of the sitch as well as Meatpuppets since I'm fairly certain my H feels the same way. We are great friends and are staying together for the kids (his words by the way) but we have not been intimate in several months and it is killing me. H was always the HD partner and my rejections led him to an A a couple of years ago. Unlike your H, I am trying but my H no longer is interested in me sexually and I am at the end of my rope because now I am about to be a WAW.
Now that I am the one being rejected and hurts me to the core and it makes me wonder if he is "getting it" somewhere else...again...
I'll be interested to see what transpires on your thread.