Yes, this is mentally, emotionally and physically exhausting!!
Your not detached bear.....and yes, it's hard to detach with them in the house flaunting thier inabilities to be a man.
I promise you....when you gain control back of YOURSELF you will feel much better.
See the attorney. Know your options.
Knowledge is power, knowledge will set you free.
No more hits to the chin & stomach bear.
What you read on his phone....is no longer acceptable to you. Him taking HER kids to the park...is no longer acceptable to you.
None of his actions are acceptable to you. Got it?
He is abusing you mentally in the worst way. This is not acceptable.
Again, once you get your control back and show him how unacceptable this is.....his world will crumble around him thus causing chaos in his fantasy life.
Write down every possible question you can imagine to ask the attorney.
Do it.
It will be ok.
Hugs,
Jeanette
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Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!