thinking about asking him to explain how he came up with me having narcissistic personality disorder
WASs are usually prone to projection. In fact, it's kind of a fun parlor game to take their statements, turn all the "you"s into "I"s, and see what they REALLY mean. So....do you think your H has narcissistic personality disorder?
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discipline of the children should only be done by the birth parents (he was "insulted" by that request),
Perhaps you should modify this by saying "or their legal spouses"? I understand not wanting a BF or GF to discipline the kids, but realistically, if either of you remarries, it would not be fair to the new spouse to leave them without the right to discipline at all. Kids would have a field day with that. And stbx would gleefully use his against you if he doesn't like your new man (which he won't, guaranteed - WASs never seem to think about the fact that them leaving means YOU might find someone new!).
