My H is much like yours when it comes to depression...adn this is what I really don't get, they dont choose to fix themselves. WE CANT. AND THAT IS so freakin' frustrating.
I remember times when H was sick he would get really really sick but not go to the doctor, no different then now.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again