Sleeper, if you keep running when she calls she will have no respect for you.
She has lost nothing by divorcing you.
She still has your total support.
In fact you probably do more for her now than you have for a long time. What incentive is there for her to want you back full time?
I understand your theory that you want to be there for her because she is expecting you to behave like the rest of the world and let her down .. but you don’t want to become a puppet on a string.
Nutty
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.