RTL, some things that Sun Tzu states in laying plans for war...

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If your opponent is of choleric temper, seek to irritate him. Pretend to be weak, that he may grow arrogant.

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Attack him where he is unprepared, appear where you are not expected.

Ok, the surprise is broken that you are going to be at the disposition tomorrow. That would have really thrown her. However, she now appears to be all fired up angry. This could work to your benefit. Just be yourself tomorrow. The balls are in your W's court and she probably will flounder trying to hit them all. Dont come to her rescue - there may be time for that at a later date. Right now, you are hoping for setting the stage for equal and fair parental time with Grace. Trust in your L as this is what you pay the big bucks for.