L-N-F, You think you have got problems? I injured my shoulder in the gym and I am sidelined for 3 weeks!!! Talk about something that SUCKS!!! Anyway, mentioning the contractor, I think you are following the old country song "I've been lookin for love in all the wrong places" In any case, that is yours to deal with. I have a real issue when people treat others like dog dung, then go lay in the church and act like they are Billy Graham or someone. Everyone can quote whatever verse from the Bible, but the underlying theme of the New Testiment is the good works of Jesus and the examples he set for treating other people. For someone to walk off and leave thier family and say that "God directed them to do it" or be involved in a ministry is quite possibly the biggest bunch of B.S. I have ever heard. If there is a Hell, I will guarantee those people will be burning in it. I am also not sold on the notion that God has a specific plan for people. God made man with a brain and the ability to make choices, with that being said, I think he has given us the freedom and the power to do just that, the rest is up to us.
