Trusting you are doing good vent here. I just know that if I have negative thoughts of h they play out in my interactions with h. I don't want that.
It also keeps me from moving forward if I am stuck on what he did. I just need to focus on the positives regardless of what my h did or did not do. That is all.
Your h sounds depressed. Now is the time to be his friend. I am not sure what your interactions are like with your h, but I would be super friendly. Like hi h how are you today. Your new hair cut looks good on you. I was going to target, Khols, walmart etc this week do you need me to pick anything up for you.
I was shopping at Khols today and picked up this shirt for you. I thought you might like it.
I would change it up, if your h isn't spending time with ow that is an excellent sign. I would try new ways of interacting with h for at least 6-8 weeks and see what happens.
It's not what you don't do but what you do!
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