H called me at work to ask me a question and we had a very peaceful 'how to get divorced' discussion. I am trying not to be afraid of the future, that would only hold me back. I see this divorce happening, and have to prepare like it is. Protect myself and the girls and stay friends with my H for their sake.
We were getting confused about some things, so I brought up that we need the mediator if we are going to officially talk about divorce. He said "Um, ok". So I told him I would make an appt next week on one of his off days.
He has agreed to help me buy the house in the neighborhood for sale (if it all falls into place, of course, with ours selling). Agreeing to help as in, negotiating prices, making offers and doing whatever needed to make the girls comfortable if we moved there. He also agreed to make that their 'homebase', and that he is fine with them staying in the district (he once discussed wanting to do private schools, which I was open to as well).
It was a good talk. As good as divorce talks go.
Oh and he wants me to pick out a helmet so he can buy it, and take me for rides on his bike. lol
