Thanks for checking in on me Sara, and everyone else
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Karen43: The funny (maybe sad?) thing about this is that I kind of think H believes that too, that he will be faithful to his next wife, but not me because he "doesn't love me anymore".
I hate this crap, they are all the same way, love is a decision, its hard work, I don't love you crap, we all have been married long enough, I asked my W what she was doing playing a game with my life, her response "I thought I was doing what I was expected to do, find a good man, get married and have children" - she couldn't have figured this out sooner, took her 10 years to call do over.
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Kat727: My H and I are exactly the same. For this he says I will always be a special friend. What a load of cr@p!!
W wants to be my friend also, I just want to throw-up, here let me screw you over, leave you and then be your friend.
Like I told Sara, I don't know if I'll ever be able to forgive my W, right now I just want her to leave and stay away, unfortunately, we have kids and she is going to be in my face my whole life, so I get to be reminded of all this crap my whole life, I know most of you do too, I'm sorry, just venting. It will get better.
I'm going to be happy, helpful, forgiving, patient and loving. Not just to W and kids, but to everyone I know and meet. This is me, this is how I want to live my life, this may not be the best course of action to save a marriage, but its the best way to live my life. Why is the right path is always the hardest.
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 no sex yet ?? let me hope !!! W moving out June 1st - 5 days
