Puppy- My H is inept in social situations. He embarrasses me most of the time by laughing at times what aren't that funny, repeating what people say for no reason at all, trying to be funny when he is not a funny guy, saying nothing at all, etc. With my family he feels comfortable so he does more...he makes "sounds" that are suppose to be funny, when playing cards he pretends to pick up the card and then puts in on the pile EVERY TIME....the pretending is suppose to be funny, he makes people uncomfortable because they feel bad that he is embarrassing himself. Sigh.

Kat- I love the needlework analogy....that makes sense. I will start with small gestures. Thank you for the nice compliment, too. \:\) I think you are pretty fantastic as well.

thegoodfight- thanks

lost-still trying to find time

Mark- I'm fighting for sure. I am trying to be patient for sure.

Question for the day: Isn't it wierd that we haven't been intimate yet? He's been home now for a couple months. He would if I wanted to....but I don't. He hasn't had it for just about 3 years...wouldn't he be tearing me apart. Is that a bad sign?