You do no have to reveal the A to the command if you do not want to, but the finances are something that can be addressed without having it really affect his career. At most, they will order him into financial counseling.
I think I may have had a breakthrough of sorts tonight with my H, but am not really sure. Trying to pull my thoughts together so I can get it posted.
SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
