Well from what I understand there really is no "legal seperation" in Illinois. That is only for people who have been seperated for many years. I hate how I feel like I am stuck with my back up against the wall. I really don't have a ton of choices and the ones I have I don't like.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08