I went to see a psychic about a month and a half ago. He was dead ba!!s on about my H, and said that as long as I stopped doing whatever it was I was doing, we would be okay. He said we would be together for at least 14 years, and that he would come back, but if I didn't change what I was doing wrong, he would leave again.
He was scary right. To the point that he asked my Xstepmothers name out loud, knew my fathers name, new my H's initials, that my daughter was going to have a girl, that my other daughter (D23) was pregnant.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Thanks Ali! You are right, those two sections sound so much like my H. I do hope he settles down as he grows older/wiser. I was surprised to see he also has a lot of aspects in Libra - I guess that's where both our intuitive and people pleaser sides come in.
GF - No...she said thanks when I sent the link. And thanks again when I wished her GL on the exams. Although the second one had a smiley face after it.
Yeah, H was all talkative last night, and today he is ignoring me. I wonder if it's because she told him what I did. Or if he's just feeling pressured somehow. But in either case, it is pissing me off. I will wait and see if I get anything from him tonight, otherwise I will call him in the AM. It's a golden opportunity to take care of at least this part of the tax refund so I don't want to miss it.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Michelle.. in answer to your question on my thread... you cast a chat for your birth time.. then you can read up on where your planets are and how this shapes your personality (like your Hs Venus in Gemini)... but for planets in the sky now.. thats called Transits..
so Mercury is currently transiting through Gemini and therefore, it will be transiting wherever Gemini is in your chart - and what house that is in your birthchart and then thats the area of life that the retrograde period is affecting. If you look on astro.com, you can pull up a free horoscope chart for transits and then enter todays date in.. your birthchart is in the centre and the planets in the sky today are shown on the outside of the chart. The glyph for mercury is like Venus (the symbol for woman) with a kind of hat on.
Hope that helps! Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Things are sounding good overall - glad to hear that. Sorry your H is (continuing) to be a jerk.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
He had a good few weeks there, but then regressed. Hopefully he'll poke his head out again sometime soon before I completely lose patience.
So, my H is in the middle of a transit. Which I find very interesting.... "End of September 2007 until beginning of July 2008: This is a time of considerable tension and difficulty in your relationships. Love relationships often cool off and may even break up altogether during this time. You may discover that a love affair wasn't what you thought it was, a rude awakening after a period of lovely illusions. Or you may suddenly lose interest in a relationship that had seemed perfectly viable up until now. Of course, the other person may be the one who leaves you.
Aside from love relationships, there is a sense of tension and a feeling that it is somehow more difficult to relate to people. You may feel that any sort of relationship exists at the cost of your freedom and sense of individuality. Relationships seem to be more trouble than they are worth."
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
So, H claims he never saw my IMs from yesterday. And when I called him today he didn't pick up. I waited about for 20 minutes after the conference before I left. He just called me back, after I'd driven 20 of the 25 miles back to my place. So, needless to say, the taxes didn't get done today. It's only the state anyways, so not much money. He says we should arrange something for this weekend, maybe by then the federal will be processed? One can hope I suppose.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
(((Michelle))) Look at it this way, if you get together on the weekend, there will be more time
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
