Especially to you. That was well worded and well placed and I really appreciate you taking the time to sit and write that. You are so right. I'm so angry right now and I obviously can't make a rational decision. Deep down I know I'll always love W, but I really don't know if I can keep the R going. We'll see.
If you know my sich then you know my MIL is in the picture. She is so distraught right now with her D. W was supposed to come by 3 hours ago to get D. No word. She is really lost. Luckily D is playing next door again (thank god for the neighbors kid). I still want D to have a good relationship with W. In 2-3 years, W is going to look back at this and say "what did I do".
Bworl, thanks again for those comments. Helped me a lot.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)