OneDay I appreciate the help w/the stages.And yes, this will be the hardest part...waiting(crickets, crickets, crickets...)ha ha. It helps to see stories where others have thought they really blew it and then the spouse comes around. I'll keep you guys posted. Also, OneDay, I keep trying to read your story and can't get to your page for some reason. As soon as I can get on your page I'll be able to keep up with you too.