One more question... at the end of the week I am going up to a music festival in New Jersey for two weeks. There will be people there who are B's colleagues/friends from his graduate school. Not his closest friends but in his circle of friends and his professional network. Is there anything I need to prepare myself for? I don't even know if they know about the breakup but anything I said/did in front of them could make its way back to him very easily.