phbear, have been keeping up but not posting much.
Good job with the check and the atty. You had those things ready and in line for when you are ready. And now you are ready. H is very comfortable leading his life of 'all talk and no action'. Those comments (hearing H saying he was separated, seeing someone else now) hurt so much. I found out last fall H was telling people we were 'on the path to divorce' when that was absolutely false. But I have learned that is how HE felt, so he made it reality.
I am proud of you bear, sorry about the text-snooping. Its hard, because you feel the need to know, but it hurts so much. Sometimes, it gives us that little 'push of reality' that we need though.
