karen, that is just sad. I can' believe he told you this. Your H certainly says some dumb, hurtful things to you.
The funny (maybe sad?) thing about this is that I kind of think H believes that too, that he will be faithful to his next wife, but not me because he "doesn't love me anymore". Of course, he will have those non-loving moments in his next R or marriage too, so I don't think that is very good reasoning myself. I almost or maybe I do feel sorry for H, b/c I think my H will have a lot of problems in any R he is in at this point b/c of how he is, his way of thinking, his immaturity, etc. but I guess he can't see that (yet anyway). Karen [/quote]
karen43,
It seems like he is not mature enough to see love is a decision NOT a feeling. The "in love" feeling comes and goes.... In my M to exW, it came and went every few months.... That is just the way it is..... You need to be able to handle the valleys as well as the peaks.....
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
