Yep, same here with OW's H and my H. Made no sense, so I stopped trying to understand it.
Glad you had a great weekend, and super YAY to the application for the apartment. H is probably freaking out on the inside, he is all talk and no action. And yes, I think he feels he can't turn back to you. Same as mine, too much guilt, too much work. And remember? We are boring!!