Its ok to cry and let it out. He is forcing this situation to be so much more stressful than it could be. Do you think he is concerned that it would be considered 'abadoning' the home if he was completely gone? I know my H was (and his dumb brother told him to never leave the house...idiot).
Karen is right. Its so stressful that H is involved in an A, and also sending you mixed messages. But to be 'removed' from your own home? So much stress.
I think I was the first out of our little 'group' here whose H moved out. It was the best thing that happened. I wished he would have left in the fall, when I was begging him to leave.
