Got a text message from H that says that he will be sleeping at the house Tues, Wed, Thurs, Fri. For some reason this made me cry. I just became overwhelmed with emotions and started bawling. Then I went around the house and did as many "mean things" as I could.
Sara, do you think maybe it's the stress of living with H when he probably isn't being faithful? I know I had a strong feeling of relief when H moved out finally. I think it is not good for our PMA to live together when our WAS is so messed up. But I have to say, do you think doing mean things is a good way to deal with that? I know it is understandable of course!!! But just wondering whether you could try to focus more on yourself and basically ignoring your H as much as possible. Not letting him know he is bothering you and living your life as happy & carefree as you possibly can? Although I know planning the mean stuff sounds like a lot of fun of course! Karen
But just wondering whether you could try to focus more on yourself and basically ignoring your H as much as possible. Not letting him know he is bothering you and living your life as happy & carefree as you possibly can? Although I know planning the mean stuff sounds like a lot of fun of course! 