[quote=karen43 I asked my H what he thought about it (this was about 3 months into the affair he's been having for 6 months now) and he said he plans to follow the advice of the pastor "in his next marriage!" Karen [/quote]

karen, that is just sad. I can' believe he told you this. Your H certainly says some dumb, hurtful things to you.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."