Got a text message from H that says that he will be sleeping at the house Tues, Wed, Thurs, Fri. For some reason this made me cry. I just became overwhelmed with emotions and started bawling. Then I went around the house and did as many "mean things" as I could. Unplugged his alarm clock, took the pillow case off his pillow, erased the message he had written to remind himself something, threw away his lighter...little things that will be annoying to him. I want to continue to send him the message that he is not welcomed at this house. He may have won the whole "legal" issue of getting to stay here, but I don't want it to be easy on him.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08