The mentality of having a committed R/M with someone who pursues a married person. The completion of that sentence is:
"...because once my D is final, and we can M each other, we will really take it to heart!"
That's my H's mentality anyway. When we went to church and they had a sermon about adultery and it's the wrong path away from God, etc. I asked my H what he thought about it (this was about 3 months into the affair he's been having for 6 months now) and he said he plans to follow the advice of the pastor "in his next marriage!" Karen
karen43,
I would ask him if he would be willing to sit down and have a talk with you and the pastor to discuss his "beliefs" and how the align with the Bible.
If he cannot be faithful to you, he cannot be faithful to another.
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
Karen 