The mentality of having a committed R/M with someone who pursues a married person. The completion of that sentence is:
"...because once my D is final, and we can M each other, we will really take it to heart!"
That's my H's mentality anyway. When we went to church and they had a sermon about adultery and it's the wrong path away from God, etc. I asked my H what he thought about it (this was about 3 months into the affair he's been having for 6 months now) and he said he plans to follow the advice of the pastor "in his next marriage!" Karen
Karen