I think she wants to be friends

[sleeper]

True to form she has presented me with another "catch 22."

Saw x-W today, we talked about vacation this weekend.(first time I've brought it up for months, she brought it up yesterday). I offered to get the car ready, asked when she was leaving and when she'd be back. From her responses I learned two things:

1.She has asked "all" her friends, no one else is interested in going.
2.She didn't plan on us going in the same car or me staying the entire time.

I feel I have two choices now:

1.Not go at all (using the true excuse that my air conditioner in my car is out).
2.Go for a day or two and come back alone (maybe be gone on a trip of my own by the time she returns as the remainder of the week is her week to keep the kids).

Any ideas?

It really doesn't matter what we do anyway, does it?