Be ready to save angry messages or mailings. Avoid private one on one conversations. You know he is going to explode. Have evidence, witnesses, and contact in fairly safe places. He may not be a physical threat, but you need to substantiate anything that could appear to be a threat.
It all sounds worse when it is read back in court, than it did when spoken out of momentary anger. Once spoken, it can be hard to take back and later he will be a busy little beaver trying to explain his dam behavior.
Not the makings of a good parent in court later. He made this mess. He will make it worse still. Make sure this all goes in your favor so you can move. Plus, if he does shoot his mouth off real bad, it may be good for a restraining order and reduced visitation. Again, bad for him, bargaining tools for you! He made this mess trying to control you, make you feel worthless, and cause you to seek medications. This is not about retaliation. It is ALL about knowing your control, owning it, and playing it like a fine musical instrument.
