By the way, when I was on the phone w/DB coach, she was outlining the "4 stages of reconciliation" for me. I got 1-3 (dust settles is #1, friendship is #2, dating is #3...) What is #4? Does anyone know? I'm assuming it's the point or stage where there is a complete reconciling of the marriage but DB coach had to go before we could cover that one. Just curious. Post if you know more about the stages of reconciliation.