Yay, Mrs. H! That is so good to hear! Yes, it is definitely time for you to play hardball.
Wow....I wish the laws were the same in Texas. Here, H can get a divorce whether I want it or not---I have absolutely no choice in the matter.
Have you decided which L you will hire? I have started calling around, but all the new L's I talk to want a big, fat retainer. They hear the word "doctor" and think I must be rolling in dough. SOOOO not the case. Yeah, he's making a GP doctor's salary, but he's only giving me enough of it to barely live on! How is that fair?
<sigh>
And I know he's got more dough than he claims, as now he wants to put the house on the market and suddenly has enough to make all the necessary repairs.
Such a J.A. .....mutter, mutter, grumble......
But I am so glad for you. You sound strong today.
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(