Ok, I went for to see another lawyer today for a consultation.

He basically said the same thing the other lawyer did.

I am going to withdraw my counter claim of divorce.

If JA wants a divorce he is going to have to prove his grounds which both lawyers said is going to be impossible to do.

The L today agreed as of right now, unless I am planning on marrying again soon, I am better off staying married.

This way I have health insurance and JA has to continue paying all the bills in the house.

I will grant JA divorce ONLY if he allows me to move to NJ.

The ball is more in my court more than I realized.

Time to play hardball.


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009